I came across this article, which starts as follows: “We are what we repeatedly do,” Aristotle famously proclaimed. “Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” And later, it goes on to quote William James: The great thing, then, in all education, is to make our nervous system our ally instead of our enemy.…
I think we ought to read only the kind of books that wound or stab us. If the book we’re reading doesn’t wake us up with a blow to the head, what are we reading for? So that it will make us happy, as you write? Good Lord, we would be happy precisely if we had no books, and the kind of books that make us happy are the kind we could write ourselves if we had to. But we need books that affect us like a disaster, that grieve us deeply, like the death of someone we loved more than ourselves, like being banished into forests far from everyone, like a suicide. A book must be the axe for the frozen sea within us. That is my belief.”
Behind the Shadows on Amazon My story based in Singapore, Mrs. Tan’s Memoir, is part of the upcoming anthology of African and Asian short stories Behind the Shadows, edited by Rohini Chowdhury and Zukiswa Wanner, available now on Amazon. The collection also includes Penguin-shortlisted author Isabella Morris; Caine Prize-shortlisted writer Lauri Kubuitsile; Singaporean Young…
“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior.
Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits.
Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.”
The only chocolates I ever ate were gifts, Cadbury’s milk chocolate from a friend of the family, my favourite Uncle, who always showed up with chocolate for the kids, who gave me the same chocolate as part of my wedding gift.